For many, everyday is a fight, made worse by the fact they cant afford to live. To live with a disability means expense that the average person cant even contemplate. I have always tried to live as 'normal' and 'full' life as possible, but unfortunately this has always come at an extra cost, financially, emotionally and physically. I will focus on financially for now as this is a very hot issue that all disabled people can relate to.
From a very young age if I wanted to live a good life than this was going to come at a cost. To make my life easier I have always required specialist equipment, that unfortunately at times I have been expected to find the cost, for example to get a wheelchair that I feel meets my needs I have always had to top up with my own money to get the chair that meets my true needs. When I was a child my mum had her own problems with her back, I was assessed for a new wheelchair and my mum was told that her needs weren't taken into account even though she was the person who always had to get my wheelchair in and out of the car. This led to my mum having more problems, It was decided that a wheelchair would be purchased for me privately so that it could both meet my needs and those of my mum. This wheelchair I kept till I was driving, where I learnt that even this wheelchair although much lighter than what I had previously been used to was still almost impossible to get it in and out of the car on my own. So I went through the whole process of applying for funding again, this time I went for a wheelchair that they offered me, simply because it seemed to be marginally better than the one I was using. This was the last time I made this decision and ever since I have topped the money up, to get what I need to be able to live, as what is deemed as suitable sadly falls very short. It is worth noting at this point that my current wheelchair cost around £3,000 and the NHS only gave me £1,800, I was fortunate to get some funding from "access to work" which helped bridge the gap, the future of "Access to work" is uncertain making it more difficult receive funds for what is needed. My wheelchair has to last me 6 years and I have to meet all the costs of maintenance. A pair of trainers might last 6 months if you are lucky at a cost of £100 if your splashing out. If you damage your leg it heals and the NHS help you fix it, if my chair gets damaged I have to pay. If someone can explain how that is fair I would like to hear it.
Other extra costs I experienced growing up included having to get taxis everywhere rather than using a bike or bus like many of my friends were able. When I was growing up the majority of buses were inaccessible and although this has improved, there are many occasions when this is still sadly the case and so it is always made much harder for myself as a disabled person to catch a bus. In fact there was a time recently when I started to get the bus into town to save me driving. Only to find that I was unable to get on the bus, not just because it was inaccessible but because there was a mother with a buggy who wouldn't collapse it to allow me on. This is okay on a glorious sunny day, but on days when it is cold and wet, there is no fun in having to wait much longer for a bus than my able bodied counterparts.
A subject often overlooked for disabled people is that of sport; as a child I was lucky with my school they regularly encouraged me to get involved, even helping me to purchase a sports chair (albeit quite basic). Unfortunately that was not and has never been my experience outside of school. I have always been keen to be involved in sport, unfortunately I learnt at an early age this was nigh on impossible with regards to disability sport. Not only was I sent round the houses when wanting information I soon learnt that to have the same opportunities as my able bodied peers it was going to be very expensive for me. For example if someone wants to take up running, all they need to get is a pair of running shoes and off they go. For a disabled person to have the same opportunities they need a specialist sports racing wheelchair. This is the same for many sports for disabled people. Recently I started learning how to play wheelchair tennis and I am lucky to have a sports wheelchair which I got some 15 years previously which is amazingly still in reasonable nick. As you can imagine technology has come on a great deal since I got this wheelchair and so if this is something that I want to get good at I will have to get a better wheelchair which could cost me anything in the region of £1500. For my able-bodied counterparts you guessed, all they need is there tennis racket, tennis ball and some trainers cost £100. It is worth noting that DLA is not designed for this that is only for care and mobility (I'm clearly not allowed hobbies). So, is it really fair that it costs me more to live, through no fault of my own, yet the state makes it harder for me to live by taking the smallest amount of money away from me, that I need for my extra personal needs.
Ok so you're thinking, why do you need to get involved in sport like this and you now have a car so you don't need to worry about the inconvenience of buses? That is not the only cost. Due to my disability I am very grateful to be entitled to a motability car because if I wasn't I would never be able to afford to drive once insurance, tax and I mustn't forget the most important aspect for me and that is the gravely expensive adaptations that I require and have no choice about having if I want to drive and still have some independence that is on top of the actual cost of the car. My husband recently brought a car, his decision was simple, small, cheap, low mileage. For me it would need to be automatic, big enough for me to put my chair in, ensuring the gap between the door and chair isn't too big ... I could go on. Motability is a massive lifeline for me which by 2013 could be taken away. For those who don't know Motability is a charity and in exchange for my car I give up the higher level mobility component of my DLA.
It is also a very sad fact that when a disabled person would like or even is able to work, this is rarely made possible due to the negative view about disabled people, with people focusing on what can't be done rather than what can be done. Disabled people often require a much more understanding, forgiving environment to be able to work effectively which is very unlikely in the world that we live in. A recent article in the guardian speaks of this problem and that of the greater problem of the way disabled people are in society. The article is here: http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2011/may/14/disabled-face-increasing-hostility-strangers, it shows that with the Government constantly labelling us as work-shy, drug addicts who drink too much we pay the price from strangers who know nothing about us. One of the worst is in fact Maria Miller MP who is the Minister for Disabled People! Indeed even the Guardian, one of the better newspapers, gets it's facts wrong. It mentions that DLA is people who are physically unable to work, this is incorrect. As already mentioned it is to help with care and getting around., it is the least abused benefit.
So, as you can read from this blog there are numerous additional costs involved with being disabled and in particular a wheelchair user. If only a member of the Government would sit up and take note. It is ironic that on March 26th 500,000 people marched through London, on May 11th around 8,000 disabled people marched though London both in protest at Government cuts. Are we really all wrong?